Horoscope for Monday, May 20
The association of Saturn and Uranus in the Libra astral sky is particularly interesting because it evokes a real awareness, the results of which will, however, only be visible in the long term.
Although humans are social animals, it would seem that you have so far relied too much on others for your welfare, neglecting some of your basic needs. For fear of rejection or loneliness, you have a tendency to hunker down and accept any type of behavior. From today, you'll be able to be more honest with yourself and take charge of things that you used to delegate to others.
This process of self-affirmation won't go without a hitch, but it will gradually allow you to present yourself as you really are, without make-up or pretense. You are obviously entering a deeply positive dynamic. It's up to you to make good use of it.
A gentle breeze is now blowing behind your back and encouraging you to move forward. Thanks to Uranus, you will be able to be honest about your opinions, dreams and aspirations.
Isn't this newfound self-confidence a sign that your lucky star is watching over you?
Libra in love
For a long time you have believed that if you want to be loved you had to accept your partner's behavior, no matter how questionable, without comment. Under the influence of Uranus, you are now beginning to understand that some of your basic needs are currently not being met and that you also have the right to a point of view.
Single Libras will seek to get a better understanding of how they think and their cognitive biases. This awareness will be a real strength for what comes next in their love lives. Sometimes you have to have the courage to question some of your certainties in order to move forward.
In a relationship: self-assertiveness at the center of the debate
Since you understand that domination has nothing to do with love you'll seek to rebalance things today. Although you're inclined to make some concessions to make your relationship work, you don't want to be subjected to your partner's every whim.
Unfortunately, the presence of Saturn in your sky indicates that your approach may not be greeted with as much enthusiasm as you hoped.
Single: introspection is also good
Since you don't feel ready to play the game of seduction and get into a short term relationship, today you'll prefer to spend time thinking. Under the influence of the Moon, you'll want to probe your inner world to see what is going on there.
On this journey, don't be surprised to encounter some of your weaknesses. Only by agreeing to face your fears will you gradually be able to see more clearly.
Libra at work
Although you often find your workload too heavy, part of it is because you assign yourself a mental load bigger than any human being can bear! Your fear of missing out is forcing you to stay at the office and take on new responsibilities when you should be at home already.
Fortunately, today, you manage to distance yourself from these supposed obligations, which are actually more in your mind. Under the influence of Uranus, it is your own well-being that you will want to take care of.
Opportunities: but also obstacles to take into account
Don't expect a sudden shift in your career prospects. If change does happen, it will take time to take hold.
For now, rely on the positive influence of the Moon and go to the trouble of defining your needs more precisely. When you know exactly what you want to accomplish, your action plan will be easier to put in place.
Libra and money
Considering your significant need for security, there is little chance that you will be making unreasonable use of your money. To improve your financial situation, you prefer to look to the long term.
Effective management of your budget and your sense of responsibility should be a big help in this regard. A little patience, in short!
Favorable prospects
As you are not the type to squander your savings on things that are not worth it, you will instinctively turn to investment solutions that have already proven their worth.
The influence of the Moon is clear here. The current economic climate could allow you to consolidate your situation faster than you expected. Keep an eye open!
An overview of your day of May 20
Although your happiness once depended almost exclusively on the presence or the opinion of your friends and family, things are about to change. Ruled by the Moon, Saturn and Uranus, your astral conjunction suggests that you no longer intend to let yourself be trodden on.
In your love life as with your family and friends, you will finally agree to set your limits and have your needs respected. As you can imagine, this process of self-affirmation will prove to be profoundly beneficial to your growth, although it will probably take several weeks, even a few months, before you reap benefits from it.
If your partner or some of your friends turn their back on you because of it then it shows they weren't very interested in your well-being in the first place. We only learn who we can trust when things aren't going well.
My tip on how to make the most of today
You currently seem motivated to spread your wings and act as honestly as possible. Make no apologies for wanting to regain your freedom and independence, which are two of the most important facets of your happiness. Despite any misunderstandings, you are doing the right thing.
So don't beat yourself up unnecessarily for being who you are, for feeling what you feel, and for loving what you love. Be self-confident and hold your head high. The future will have some great surprises in store for you if you keep going. I congratulate you on your courage!
